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| Dr. Kamal Khurana |
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| Why Marriage Counselling |
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Marriage is the centre around which all other relationships of the couple are formed. The couples are the builders of the new family. |
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Marriage Counselling deals with the pain in the marriage. |
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Marriage Counselling helps in gradually making sense to the couple instead of just the individual even when either the husband or the wife approaches. |
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Marriage Counselling helps in the couple to act so as to establish a balance in the relationship. |
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Marriage Counselling helps in checking certain irrational assumptions that are detrimental to the marriage. |
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Marriage Counselling helps the couples to act jointly in nurturing the relationship, thereby making a fast recovery. |
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Marriage Counselling helps in the couple to act so as to establish a balance in the relationship. |
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Marriage Counselling helps in working at both the levels – at the individual level and at the marriage as a whole. |
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| Factors Affecting The Marriage |
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Unclear expectations if the husband towards the wife and vice-versa |
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Couple’s mutual expectations when not conveyed properly or when not check for reality create disturbances in a marriage. |
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Unclear expectations of the family of origin |
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Some immediate wants of the individuals |
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Immediate wants when not addressed lead to frustration and moving apart. |
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Ambiguous roles as a husband or wife |
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Ambiguous roles of the husband and wife lead to a feeling of overdoing in the mind of either of them. |
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Low Self esteem is unconsciously made up by blaming, putting down, silent treatment and other form of unhealthy defense responses. |
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Couples of today are so busy and unaware of how to communicate with each other and the result is that live only two like room partners. |
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Way of communication amongst the couple |
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| ADDITIONAL SOURCES OF PAIN IN RELATIONSHIPS |
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| After seeing hundreds of couples as a marriage and relationship counselor, I find people complaining of superficial reasons of disturbance in their relationships. |
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| Some of these superficial reasons as mentioned by my clients are : |
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No interest in each others life. |
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Zero Affection towards each other. |
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Display of Anger in every situation of conflict. |
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Indifferent attitude towards each others needs. |
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| DISENGAGEMENT on the part of either or both of the couple pushes the relationship goes on a downward spiral. And then the outlet of disengagement is inform of indifference, loss of interest, frustration and display of anger. |
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