THE BIGGEST MISTAKE YOU MAKE THAT CAN COMPLETELY DESTROY YOUR MARRIAGE - Marriage Counselling
Updated: Jul 8, 2020
Arguments and complaints are a part of all marriages - yes, even healthy ones. We all have
moments when we disagree with our partners, when we are unhappy with them or when we
simply vent out other frustrations on them. This is normal and healthy. But how we deal with
these arguments can be a defining feature in our relationship. The way we deal with an
argument can make or break a marriage.
There is one major mistake that most of make that completely destroy a strained relationship. That mistake is to engage with our partner ‘at the level of the complaint’. We look at that complaint in isolation, instead of telling our partner what they really need to hear fro